The Missing Link for Changing Your Life Forever

One of the biggest problems that people have is personalization. How do you take the life skills that you learn and make them fit YOUR life?

What we have discovered is that you need to have these skills tailored to fit your unique situation, your personality, and your natural ways of moving and speaking.

In other words that normal people might say… You need the skills to fit. If there was only one size of shoes there would be a lot of barefoot people. The same is true of life changing Read the rest of this entry

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This is SO SIMPLE and make SO MUCH sense!

3 Easy  Steps that most people skip when they want their lives to change.

First Step… For change to have a chance to work the environment of your mind has to change. Your mind has to become changeable. That sounds so simple but it is a step that all of the other personal change methods skip. I could get into all of the brain chemistry that allows a brain to enter a changeable state, but let’s keep things simple for now.

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Let’s take a quick look at how most people try and change their lives. Most personal change tools fall into 4 categories.

One – Make you feel good about life. Sounds good but the truth is that so does a bottle of gin, and the effects last just about as long as this type of change. Just changing your feelings about how your life stinks is not much help. “I have no money, no job, no social life, but….I feel great”, is not a very good change to make. It makes you stop moving and settle for what you have. Read the rest of this entry

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This was a great Gold Member Seminar. Here is the link

http://www.essential-skills.com/gold-member-video-library/mind-traps/

In case you missed it here are the Mind Traps

Mind Trap #1 – Expectation

Mind Trap #2 – Contingency

Mind Trap #3 – Projection

Mind Trap #4 – Perfection

Mind Trap #5 – Comparison

Mind Trap #6 – Invalidation

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It seems that all to often we are seeing this scenario play out. It makes the average person wonder what the hell is going on. It would seem that the goal of being rich, famous and beautiful does NOT equal happiness.

How could this be?

Our latest example is Whitney Houston. From the outside it is hard to imagine how someone like Whitney could possibly have anything to be depressed or unhappy about.

It is easy to blame fame or pressure but so many famous people do not have any problem. When I think of the actors and musicians that Read the rest of this entry

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