Posts Tagged 'Social anxiety'

What are the four things that make changing your life so difficult?

1 Deciding what you want your life to be like

2 Deciding what needs to change in order to get it

3 Overly complex methods of change that require massive amounts of time and effort

4 Not having a workable strategy to get you where you want to be

Some people say you need to be motivated in order to change your life. I disagree. I think when people hit a block they ...

The Blame Game….

As long as you look for someone to blame for your problems you will NEVER find any solutions. 

I recently ran into a guy that had the perfect answer for everything. It was all the fault of someone else. I met the guy and we had a talk. His wife didn’t understand him. His friends had all drifted away from him. His business was not going well. He was on his 4th marriage. Of course they were all psycho ...

 It is a matter of LIFE AND DEATH! or is it?

Stress…..Anxiety…..Nervousness…..How do these things REALLY affect your life?

Your body is designed to physically survive in the harshest of environments. We are made to adapt and learn and that is what makes us able to live in such diverse climates around the world. It is an amazing ability that has allowed humans to survive global disasters and even an ice age.

On a primal level the brain is constantly monitoring for threats ...

Some people believe the world is out to judge them. It is just waiting to make fools of them. Everyone is ready to pounce on every flaw you have. 

Hey that is what all the commercials say . You don’t smell right. You are fat. You are wearing the wrong clothes. Driving the wrong car. If you don’t do what they say everyone will think less of you. It is like facing forced paranoia a 1000 times ...

“Hire me because helping people is my passion “

That will never get you the job. 

First, understand what the company wants from you. Too many people just spit out all their qualifications but don’t consider what are the most important for the job and the company. Tailor your resume and interview to fit what the company thinks is important. 

Second, every person you meet is important. Get rapport or even initial contact rapport with ...