Some people can see what you are thinking. They seem to be able to read your mind. It is as if they can predict your next thought and there is no place to hide.
What seems like magic is really very simple. These people know how to read you. They pay attention in a different way. They have trained themselves to notice the cues you give off that tell them what you are thinking and what message you are sending even if you are trying to hide it.
The truth is that this is not that hard to do. All you need is to follow 3 simple steps.
- Remove your pre-judgments- This is where your previous experiences with similar people actually fog up your perception. Your brain wants to quickly categorize people into a pattern that you have seen before. We all do this to some extent. We give respect to someone in a suit and decide the guy with tattoos is a thug. While people who seem like mind readers notice all of this they set it aside long enough to see past it. That is why they are more accurate.
- Set your emotions aside. Emotions are like a filter on the world. When you feel good you are more likely to trust someone. When you feel bad you are less likely to trust someone. If someone has just violated your trust you tend to project those hurt feelings onto other people. Your emotions can cloud your judgment so you need to have access to a clean state. It is like being able to look out of a clean window and really seeing the world and seeing people as they are instead of basing it on how you feel.
- Pay attention to detail. What are they wearing and what message are they trying to project? If they are stone faced and focused what is their state? If they are relaxed and looking around what does that mean? If they have a thousand dollar looking suit but it is missing a button what does that tell you? If their eyes are distant and they are just automatically responding how open are they to suggestion? Does their state match their words and tonality?
All of this does take some practice and some training but if all you do you just notice these three things as you go through the day your ability to see what is really going on will get much better. Today take a moment notice 3 people as you go through your day. Set your prejudgments aside. Get into a clean state. Notice the details that you normally would ignore.
What do you see? How much closer are you to seeming like you can read someone’s mind?
BTW.. This will be taught at the Total Life Transformation Seminar this November 7th. .
If you want the skills that allow you to live the life you desire check out our seminar.
https://www.essential-skills.com/3dmind/2011/09/04/upcoming-seminars-2/
Have fun
Tom and Kim