We just got back from 2 weeks of traveling around Florida after our latest seminar. It was another great group of people. As usual we made some new friends met a lot of people.  Of course during the seminar it was all work and very little play but after that it was all play. One night we were out till 4 am swimming in the Gulf of Mexico waving our hands around making the water glow from bioluminescence. Then we were out till 1 am walking on the Atlantic coast a few days later watching the giant sea turtles come on shore to lay their eggs.

During the days we were able to do our coaching sessions for our coaching clients from the beach after spending hours body surfing. I was sitting on the beach one day while taking a break from swimming and I was thinking… Life is pretty damn good. We live a life that most people only dream about. We have a level of freedom that most people don’t even believe is possible.

I have a friend who asks my advice from time to time. Over the last 5 years I don’t think he ever took my advice even once. His life is exactly the same as it was 5 years ago. He has the same problems. He makes the same decisions. He still sits confused about what to do and how to be successful.

He just does not understand what it takes. He still thinks it is all about hard work and being dependable. He does not understand that while those are good qualities they are really a small part of what it takes to be successful in life, career and relationships.

There is a difference between what people think they need and what they really need. People think they need:

More motivation

More confidence

Success strategies

Master your emotions

Discover your purpose

Believe in yourself

Set goals

The truth is that you don’t need any of these things. They are all self-help BS. Yeah they sound good and make for good sound bites but honestly if this is all it took everyone would be successful. You could get this kind of advice from any self-help book out there. It is all just simple minded hype!

How can I say that?

Maybe I have just lost my mind. Maybe I am just begging for attention. Maybe I just don’t get it. Maybe I am just a horribly negative person. Maybe I am crazy.

Or

Maybe we have created something different that actually works.

Over the next few days I am going to put up some videos explaining exactly what I mean and how you can start getting results today to get a better life. Then you can judge for yourself

Stay Tuned!